There are no sets of rules when it comes to a funeral and an order of service. You and your loved ones have the final say in the day’s proceedings.

A typical funeral procession will begin at the home of the person who has died, or at the funeral home itself. Your loved one may travel in a hearse, followed by their family members.

If you’re having your loved one buried, the coffin will be taken to a cemetery and will be lowered into a grave, as a small service is carried out.

If you’re having your loved one cremated the coffin will be taken to a crematorium and will then be placed onto a stand. Music will be played, and the coffin will gradually be lowered and disappear.

An example of an order of service for a religious ceremony can include the following:

• Music playing as you enter the church

• An introduction by the minister/celebrant

• A song

• One or more bible readings

• A short message from the celebrant

• An appreciation of the life of the one who’s gone. Could be images, video, or a eulogy.

• Time for reflection. This may be accompanied by music

• Funeral prayers that offer words of comfort to all those attending

• Another song

• Words of commendation just before the cremation or burial

• Committal of your loved one with words or music

• Closing words

• Departure, which may be accompanied by music as everyone leaves

An example of a non-religious service can include:

• Music playing as you enter the service

• Opening words by the celebrant

• Poems or readings, usually read by a family member, family friend or the celebrant

• Tributes said either by the celebrant, family friend or family member

• Committal of your loved one

• The final poem/reading is read, either by the celebrant, friend or family member

• Departure, which may be accompanied by music as everyone leaves

Funerals can be as unique as you want them to be. These are just guidelines regarding what usually happens at a religious or non-religious service. The choice is ultimately yours and your family’s. It’s your last goodbye to the one you love, and you should arrange the funeral order of service as you wish.

Peace of Mind has put together the following Order of Service templates, for you and your family to use at your loved one’s service.

Modern Template

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Classic Template

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